If you are taking part in a same-sex marriage this week, as a guest, a participant or an officiant, tell us how it's going. What's the reaction of family and friends? Do you have qualms about the uncertainty of its legal status? What kind of ceremony and celebration is planned? Is this causing a ruckus among your nearest and dearest or is everyone all good with it? What is it like to be a part of this -- does it make you uncomfortable or are you happy for the newlyweds? Let us know how the county clerk's office copes with everything tomorrow.

If you get married or celebrate the union of another couple, post your photos to Flickr and add them to the “Central Valley Photos” group or add the keyword “centralvalleygaymarriage.”