"Just staring at the wall really"
Maj. Johns and I had been at the patrol base to the west for several days. We took up residence on two adjacent cots in the far corner of a plywood structure which, by size comparisons, was much like the other Army tents it was built among. There were no walls to divide the space within the structure. Cots lined the long side walls with space for a walkway in the middle. There were about 20 cots in all and transient soldiers came and went, mostly as they left for, or returned from, their leaves home. During the daytime, the structure would shake and breathe in the hot winds and the thin lines of light where plywood panels met on the walls, and at the meeting of the walls and the ceiling, would swell and widen broadening bright luminous fissures in the dark space. Small gray lizards would crawl though these cracks and take refuge from the heat on the plywood ceiling between the beams.
Soldiers getting ready to go on leave would talk about things they planned to do at home with tones of relief and elation. Soldiers returning to their units would move about anxiously and hope for delays in their returns back to the line. When details of their returns were received, and when all hope of delay had been exhausted, their muscles visibly tightened and their movements became jolted, almost angry, and they began to speak of their hopelessness, the friends they had seen killed. They began to question and criticize the war, late into the night on their cots in the darkness. In the morning, they would be gone, their empty cots a reminder of them, and of where they would be by now. Often when we spoke to them, we wondered secretly if they would become one more of those we had talked with who might later appear on a memorial flier before us, an inverted rifle and bayonet, a Kevlar, a pair of boots, and dog tags, a typed message naming who they left behind back home.
The major and I took up shop in a metal storage trailer during the daytime. It had no windows but had been fitted with lights and an air conditioner. Command, knowing he and I were coming, had detained or sent in several soldiers they wanted us to see. The recent decision to extend all of the soldiers had made our job harder and those who lived day to day had begun to digest and absorb the mental impact of 90 more days they would need to survive.
"No, sir, I don't really sleep. Well, maybe an hour or two, then I get up. I don't want to dream," the soldier said to us. His name was Staff Sgt. Johnson. He was a good soldier, and you could tell when you spoke to him. He was a man of honor. He was ashamed to be speaking with us, but his leaders had insisted. He had served three combat tours as a squad leader in a line unit. His body and his hands shook during pauses in his speaking and he stared at us, and sometimes past us, with a wide-eyed look of hyper alertness. He had just returned from leave and two guys in his squad were killed days before his return.
"You know, I think I thought, or...you would think, that each time you lose someone in combat it would be easier, but it's not. It's not." He shook his head and looked away from Maj. Johns and down at the floor. "It's not," he repeated as he stared at the floor. He looked back up at me nervously, still shaking his head. When he finally stopped shaking his head, his body erupted into a tiny tremor as he tried to keep still. He pressed and rubbed his palms against his knees as he sat, presumably to try and stop his hands from shaking. "Every time someone dies, I relive all of the other deaths. Over and over." He shook his head and looked back down at the floor and the tremor began again.
"That's a very normal response," Maj. Johns said. I nodded and Staff Sgt. Johnson nodded back at us sadly, and then looked away.
"You know, I think going home on leave really told me how bad I was."
"What happened on your leave?" Maj. Johns asked.
"Well, not too much really. Well, the first few days were good."
"What did you do the first few days?"
"I checked into a nice hotel and got a bottle of scotch and I didn't come out for about four or five days. It was great. I didn't get drunk. I just sipped, you know?"
"What were you doing in there all that time?" Maj. Johns asked.
"Just staring at the wall really," he answered, and then drifted his gaze past us as if remembering. "I didn't turn on the TV or anything. I just stared at the wall. Well, for the first three days anyway. I know it sounds weird but it was really great."
"Then what happened?"
"Well, then my girlfriend came. And don't get me wrong. I love her and she's a great girl and all but it just wasn't the same after she came. She's great though. She's so understanding."
"How did things go with your girlfriend? Did you get along okay?"
"Oh yah, we didn't fight at all. No, we got along. But..." he looked from Maj. Johns toward me and hesitated.
"But what, man?" I asked.
"Well, I couldn't do it, you know? I mean sex. We didn't have sex at all. Her skin just felt really weird. You know what I mean?" He sort of squinted and cocked his head to the side slightly when he asked if we knew what he meant.
"No, not exactly. What did her skin feel like to you? Describe it to us," Maj. Johns replied.
"Like rubber, like an animal," he crinkled his cheeks as he remembered, as if it were repulsive to him. "Like she wasn't real."
We talked with Staff Sgt. Johnson for a while longer. He was one of the worst we had ever seen. When we mentioned the thought of him taking his squad out again he simply said, "I can't. I won't. I won't load another body onto that chopper. I can't. I won't."
Comments
You are describing a man having a severe and acute stress reaction with who seems to be having both depersonalization and derealization as well as flashbacks . Please tell us that he didn't go back. If he was sent to the front, is there any way to recall that decision? That man sounds like a danger to himself and others; he is in too much distress right now. (I am a psychologist, licensed in the state of CA.)
Best wishes to you...and thank you for this blog.
Posted by: Laura Doty, Ph.D. | May 24, 2007 3:57 AM
The thousand meter stare just like Vietnam. At least it is being recognized as a problem now. Not like 35 years ago.
Posted by: Anne | May 24, 2007 8:08 PM
And for what noble cause has this young man's mind been destroyed?
Posted by: Patrick | May 24, 2007 9:39 PM
What do you expect...it's the Nam all over again. I spent 13 months in Nam as a medic. Now we got GIs spending years of their lives exposed to a horrible death or dismemberment.
Posted by: olevet69 | May 24, 2007 9:40 PM
This hardship shows how needed increased compsation would be for our troops; nonetheless leaving Iraq.
Posted by: Jerry | May 24, 2007 10:14 PM
This is truly a sad story (as are many others) I just wrote a post on thebluestate.com about it. I hope things work out (the best they can)for all the soldiers.
Tony
Posted by: aravella | May 24, 2007 11:34 PM
Thank you. I can relate.
I always wanted to be a soldier as a kid, but when guys started coming back from Vietnam I changed my mind.
I'm really sorry about your patient, Johnson. I believe we've all done this to him, and what we've all done to the Iraqis is worse.
When God said, "Love your neighbor as yourself," and "Love your enemies," he wasn't kidding.
The path away from love is the path to insanity.
Posted by: flotron | May 25, 2007 1:02 AM
Jeff,
Thank you for serving these kids who are being put through horrific experiences (for what? I ask myself...)
Moreover, thank you so much for documenting so carefully conversations like this, to bring home to us just exactly what "combat" and PTSD really mean.
Sincerely yours,
Jim
Armona, CA
Posted by: Jim Miles | May 25, 2007 2:34 AM
Jeff:
Can you get this soldier back to a Restoration Team? Sounds like he needs it, and enough that the travel risks are worth it.
The combined efforts of the P-team I led and the R-team I supervised had a noticable and helpful effect on a number of similarly stressed soldiers. Not a cure, and some soldiers still need further evac, but worth a try if only to get him off line for a bit.
Neil O'C
Balad, 2004-2005
Posted by: Neil O'C | May 25, 2007 10:39 PM
This soldier was evac'd, per our recommendation, the following day, first to the "fitness team" (restoration clinic, four day program) at Liberty, and then to the CSH, Landshtuhl Germany, and ultimately home. He was a very severe case.
Usually if I encounter a soldier who is this severe I go directly to the battalion XO and then to the company commander of the soldier. This sometimes irritates the company commanders since their decision may now be scrutinized by their command, which, in all honesty, is my intention, however unpopular this may make me. It is, however, always their decision wether or not to follow our recommendations but informing commmand at the battalion level first usually results in our recommendations being followed.
I often find the clinical and logistical elements of these stories very dry to write about. So, usually I don't describe the actual therapy or plan of action explicitly. Just know we do our best to take care of these guys. We take our job very seriously and also consider the fact that removing men from already strained units can lead to a weakening of the group. It can be a hard decision and, as I said, we weigh it very carefully.
Posted by: Jeff Leonard | June 1, 2007 10:17 AM
if thats true then i want this war to end bush has made this the last TIME he will ever really want to be seen i am only 13 hut U KNOW WHAT? i know just as much as anybody on here
Posted by: Anonymous | April 26, 2008 8:41 AM